LOVE AND RESPECT

Passage: Ephesians 5:22-33

Key verse: 33

NIV

22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands(A) as you do to the Lord.(B) 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church,(C) his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands(D) in everything.

25 Husbands, love your wives,(E) just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her(F) 26 to make her holy,(G) cleansing[a] her by the washing(H) with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself(I) as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.(J) 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives(K) as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body.(L) 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[b](M) 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife(N) as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

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Footnotes
  1. Ephesians 5:26 Or having cleansed
  2. Ephesians 5:31 Gen. 2:24
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Wives and Husbands

22 (A)Wives, (B)submit to your own husbands, (C)as to the Lord. 23 For (D)the husband is the head of the wife even as (E)Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is (F)himself its Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit (G)in everything to their husbands.

25 (H)Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and (I)gave himself up for her, 26 that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by (J)the washing of water (K)with the word, 27 so (L)that he might present the church to himself in splendor, (M)without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish.[a] 28 In the same way (N)husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, 30 because (O)we are members of his body. 31 (P)“Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and (Q)the two shall become one flesh.” 32 This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. 33 However, (R)let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she (S)respects her husband.

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  1. Ephesians 5:27 Or holy and blameless
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1. Wives, submit to your husbands (22-24)

The general principle for the human relationship is to 'submit to one another out of reverence for Christ' (21). For the marital relationship, the wife is to submit to her husband as the head of the family. Paul compares this relationship to Christ's headship of the church. As the relationship between Christ and the church is sustained by love and submission, so is the relationship between a husband and wife.

2. Husbands, love your wives (25-33)

As Christ loved the church, the husband should love his wife. Christ loved us when we were still sinners. He gave himself up for us to be holy and blameless. His love is unconditional and sacrificial. So Paul says, '…husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies.' We take good care of our bodies with food, clothes, medicine, rest etc. Likewise, the husband should love and take care of his wife. The husband and wife are one flesh through God-ordained marriage, and it is 'a profound mystery.' To keep this profound mystery Christ-like, the husband must love his wife and the wife should respect her husband.

Prayer: Lord, thank you for your submission to God and your love for us. Help us imitate your example.

One Word: Do as Christ has done