INSTRUCTIONS FOR HUSBANDS AND WIVES

Passage: 1 Peter 3:1-7

Key verse: 4

NIV

3 Wives, in the same way submit yourselves(A) to your own husbands(B) so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over(C) without words by the behavior of their wives, 2 when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. 3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes.(D) 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self,(E) the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.(F) 5 For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God(G) used to adorn themselves.(H) They submitted themselves to their own husbands, 6 like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord.(I) You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.

7 Husbands,(J) in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.

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Wives and Husbands

3 Likewise, wives, (A)be subject to your own husbands, so that (B)even if some do not obey the word, (C)they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, 2 when they see your (D)respectful and pure conduct. 3 (E)Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear— 4 but let your adorning be (F)the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious. 5 For this is how the holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their own husbands, 6 as Sarah obeyed Abraham, (G)calling him lord. And you are her children, if you do good and (H)do not fear anything that is frightening.

7 Likewise, (I)husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker (J)vessel, since they are heirs with you[a] of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.

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  1. 1 Peter 3:7 Some manuscripts since you are joint heirs
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1. Instructions for wives (1-6) In the same way that Christians should submit to authorities, wives should submit to their husbands. In today's society, this isn't popular. But it's important, because a believing wife can win over an unbelieving husband, not with words, but by her behavior. Such a life is beautiful in God's sight. Peter calls this kind of beauty "the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight." (4) Abraham's beautiful wife, Sarah, is an example. 2. Instructions for husbands (7) Husbands are admonished to be considerate to their wives and to treat them with respect. Husbands, our wives are our coworkers, our co-heirs of the kingdom of God. We should love and treat our wives as such.

Prayer: Lord, help each of us to submit ourselves to you and to each other as you command. May we each grow in a Christ-like life.

One Word: Inner beauty is of great worth to God